Sikhism·Raag Tilang·Shabad 4
Verse 3 of 4

The Way Isn't More Cleverness but Surrender

ਜਾਇ ਪੁਛਹੁ ਸੋਹਾਗਣੀ ਵਾਹੈ ਕਿਨੀ ਬਾਤੀ ਸਹੁ ਪਾਈਐ ॥
jaa-ay puchhahu sohaaganee vaahai kinee baatee saho paa-ee-ai.
Go and ask the happy, pure soul-brides, how did they obtain their Husband Lord?
ਜੋ ਕਿਛੁ ਕਰੇ ਸੋ ਭਲਾ ਕਰਿ ਮਾਨੀਐ ਹਿਕਮਤਿ ਹੁਕਮੁ ਚੁਕਾਈਐ ॥
jo kichh karay so bhalaa kar maanee-ai hikmat hukam chukhaa-ee-ai.
Whatever the Lord does, accept that as good; do away with your own cleverness and self-will.
ਜਾ ਕੈ ਪ੍ਰੇਮਿ ਪਦਾਰਥੁ ਪਾਈਐ ਤਉ ਚਰਣੀ ਚਿਤੁ ਲਾਈਐ ॥
jaa kai paraym padaarath paa-ee-ai ta-o charnee chit laa-ee-ai.
By His Love, true wealth is obtained; link your consciousness to His lotus feet.
ਸਹੁ ਕਹੈ ਸੋ ਕੀਜੈ ਤਨੁ ਮਨੋ ਦੀਜੈ ਐਸਾ ਪਰਮਲੁ ਲਾਈਐ ॥
saho kahai so keejai tan mano deejai aisaa parmal laa-ee-ai.
As your Husband Lord directs, so you must act; surrender your body and mind to Him, and apply this perfume to yourself.
ਏਵ ਕਹਹਿ ਸੋਹਾਗਣੀ ਭੈਣੇ ਇਨੀ ਬਾਤੀ ਸਹੁ ਪਾਈਐ ॥੩॥
ayv kaheh sohaaganee bhainay inee baatee saho paa-ee-ai. ||3||
So speaks the happy soul-bride, O sister; in this way, the Husband Lord is obtained. ||3||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Go and ask the glad, pure brides: how did you reach your Beloved?

Whatever the One does, take it as good; drop your own cleverness and self-will. By His love the true wealth comes — so fasten your heart to His feet. Do as your Beloved wishes; give Him your body and mind — wear that as your perfume. This is what the happy bride says, sister: this is how the Beloved is found.

Those who've arrived say the way isn't more cleverness but surrender — take what comes as good, and give yourself over.
The deeper layer

The answer comes not as a lecture but as advice from those who have arrived — "go and ask the happy soul-brides." And their answer is acceptance and surrender: "whatever the Lord does, accept that as good; do away with your own cleverness and self-will." The way to the Beloved is not more striving but the laying down of the self-will that was striving. "Give Him your body and mind, and apply this perfume" — surrender itself is the adornment. The ones who found Him did so by stopping the fight with reality and giving themselves over.

A Question to Sit With

What would 'accepting whatever comes as good, and dropping your own cleverness' change for you right now?

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