Sikhism·Raag Wadahans·Shabad 46
Verse 3 of 4

Keep a True, Good Friend Close, Always

ਜਮ ਮਾਰਗ ਪੰਥੁ ਨ ਸੁਝਈ ਉਝੜੁ ਅੰਧ ਗੁਬਾਰੋਵਾ ॥
jam maarag panth na sujh-ee ujharh anDh gubaarovaa.
The path of death is dark and dismal; the way cannot be seen.
ਨਾ ਜਲੁ ਲੇਫ ਤੁਲਾਈਆ ਨਾ ਭੋਜਨ ਪਰਕਾਰੋਵਾ ॥
naa jal layf tulaa-ee-aa naa bhojan parkaarovaa.
There is no water, no quilt or mattress, and no food there.
ਭੋਜਨ ਭਾਉ ਨ ਠੰਢਾ ਪਾਣੀ ਨਾ ਕਾਪੜੁ ਸੀਗਾਰੋ ॥
bhojan bhaa-o na thandhaa paanee naa kaaparh seegaaro.
He receives no food there, no honor or water, no clothes or decorations.
ਗਲਿ ਸੰਗਲੁ ਸਿਰਿ ਮਾਰੇ ਊਭੌ ਨਾ ਦੀਸੈ ਘਰ ਬਾਰੋ ॥
gal sangal sir maaray oobhou naa deesai ghar baaro.
The chain is put around his neck, and the Messenger of Death standing over his head strikes him; he cannot see the door of his home.
ਇਬ ਕੇ ਰਾਹੇ ਜੰਮਨਿ ਨਾਹੀ ਪਛੁਤਾਣੇ ਸਿਰਿ ਭਾਰੋ ॥
ib kay raahay jamman naahee pachhutaanay sir bhaaro.
The seeds planted on this path do not sprout; bearing the weight of his sins upon his head, he regrets and repents.
ਬਿਨੁ ਸਾਚੇ ਕੋ ਬੇਲੀ ਨਾਹੀ ਸਾਚਾ ਏਹੁ ਬੀਚਾਰੋ ॥੩॥
bin saachay ko baylee naahee saachaa ayhu beechaaro. ||3||
Without the True Lord, no one is his friend; reflect upon this as true. ||3||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

When we forget the good, life can feel lonely and hard, like a long road with nothing to lean on.

The good things you plant now are what nourish you along the way.

Without something true to hold onto, we can feel friendless — but that friend is always available.

A life with nothing good to hold onto can feel lonely — so keep a true, good Friend close, always.
The deeper layer

The verse honestly describes a life without the good as a hard, dark road — "no water, no food, no friend." The frightening literal imagery (chains, the Messenger striking) is set aside, per the wellbeing rules; what's kept is the gentle truth that a life with nothing good to lean on feels lonely and hard, and its remedy: "without the True Lord, no one is his friend" — so keep that Friend close. The "seeds planted" line is the karma-as-planting image: what you sow, you find on the road. For a child: a life with nothing good to hold onto can feel lonely — so keep a true Friend close, always.

A Question to Sit With

Who is a true friend you can always lean on, no matter what?

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