Sikhism·Raag Wadahans·Shabad 52
Verse 2 of 64

You Can't Tell What Someone's Like by Looks

ਮਃ ੩ ॥
mehlaa 3.
Third Mehl:
ਮੈ ਜਾਨਿਆ ਵਡ ਹੰਸੁ ਹੈ ਤਾ ਮੈ ਕੀਆ ਸੰਗੁ ॥
mai jaani-aa vad hans hai taa mai kee-aa sang.
I thought that he was a great swan, so I associated with him.
ਜੇ ਜਾਣਾ ਬਗੁ ਬਪੁੜਾ ਤ ਜਨਮਿ ਨ ਦੇਦੀ ਅੰਗੁ ॥੨॥
jay jaanaa bag bapurhaa ta janam na daydee ang. ||2||
If I had known that he was only a wretched heron from birth, I would not have touched him. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Sometimes we can't tell a real swan from a heron just by looking.

What matters isn't the look — it's what's truly inside.

You can't always tell what someone's really like just by how they look — what matters is what's inside.
The deeper layer

A short, wry Shalok: "I thought he was a great swan, so I kept his company; if I had known he was only a heron, I would not have touched him." The heron (bagula) looks a bit like a swan and stands very still (as if meditating) — but it's really just watching for fish. The Gurus use it for someone who looks holy but isn't. The lesson: don't judge by appearances; what matters is what's truly inside. The qMonk voice keeps this gently — it's about telling real goodness from show, not about calling anyone "wretched." For a child: you can't always tell what someone's really like just by how they look — what matters is what's inside.

A Question to Sit With

How can you tell if someone is truly kind, beyond just how they appear?

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