Sikhism·Siree Raag·Ashtapadee 7
Verse 6 of 9

Everyone Begs for Happiness, No One Asks for Suffering

ਸੁਖ ਕਉ ਮਾਗੈ ਸਭੁ ਕੋ ਦੁਖੁ ਨ ਮਾਗੈ ਕੋਇ ॥
sukh ka-o maagai sabh ko dukh na maagai ko-ay.
Everyone begs for happiness; no one asks for suffering.
ਸੁਖੈ ਕਉ ਦੁਖੁ ਅਗਲਾ ਮਨਮੁਖਿ ਬੂਝ ਨ ਹੋਇ ॥
sukhai ka-o dukh aglaa manmukh boojh na ho-ay.
But in the wake of happiness, there comes great suffering. The self-willed manmukhs do not understand this.
ਸੁਖ ਦੁਖ ਸਮ ਕਰਿ ਜਾਣੀਅਹਿ ਸਬਦਿ ਭੇਦਿ ਸੁਖੁ ਹੋਇ ॥੫॥
sukh dukh sam kar jaanee-ahi sabad bhayd sukh ho-ay. ||5||
Those who see pain and pleasure as one and the same find peace; they are pierced through by the Shabad. ||5||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Everyone begs for happiness. No one asks for suffering.

But in the wake of happiness, there comes great suffering. The self-willed manmukhs do not understand this.

Those who see pain and pleasure as one and the same find peace. They are pierced through by the Shabad.

Seeing pain and pleasure as one and the same brings peace — and the Shabad is what produces this seeing.
The deeper layer

The pleasure-suffering pair: happiness brings suffering in its wake (dukh dard follows sukh). The manmukh who pursues happiness without understanding this is caught in the cycle. The resolution: dono eko jaanai — seeing both as one and the same. Not indifference to pain or pleasure, but the equanimity that is not driven differently by each.

'Pierced through by the Shabad' — the Shabad produces this equanimity. Not philosophical acceptance but the genuine transformation of the one who carries the Shabad within. The Shabad in the heart reorganizes what pain and pleasure can do to the person.

A Question to Sit With

What would it look like to feel genuine equanimity about both pleasure and pain — not to care less, but to be moved by them without being driven by them?

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