Sikhism·Siree Raag·Shabad 13
Verse 4 of 5

Love Dies, and So Does Hatred

ਮੁਈ ਪਰੀਤਿ ਪਿਆਰੁ ਗਇਆ ਮੁਆ ਵੈਰੁ ਵਿਰੋਧੁ ॥
mu-ee pareet pi-aar ga-i-aa mu-aa vair viroDh.
Love dies, and affection vanishes. Hatred and alienation die.
ਧੰਧਾ ਥਕਾ ਹਉ ਮੁਈ ਮਮਤਾ ਮਾਇਆ ਕ੍ਰੋਧੁ ॥
DhanDhaa thakaa ha-o mu-ee mamtaa maa-i-aa kroDh.
Entanglements end, and egotism dies, along with attachment to Maya, possessiveness and anger.
ਕਰਮਿ ਮਿਲੈ ਸਚੁ ਪਾਈਐ ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਸਦਾ ਨਿਰੋਧੁ ॥੩॥
karam milai sach paa-ee-ai gurmukh sadaa niroDh. ||3||
Those who receive His Mercy obtain the True One. The Gurmukhs dwell forever in balanced restraint. ||3||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Love dies. Affection fades. Hatred and alienation die. Entanglements end.

Egotism dies. Attachment to appearances dies. Possessiveness and anger die.

Those who receive the True Lord's mercy — everything that is not essential in them dies away too. And what remains is what was always real.

When the ego and its attachments die, what remains is not emptiness — it is love without a condition on it.
The deeper layer

This pauri is remarkable: not only the negative qualities (hatred, egotism, anger) but also the positive ones (love, affection) are said to die. This seems counterintuitive until you understand that Guru Nanak is describing the death of the conditional versions of these — love that attaches, affection that clings.

What remains after this dying-away is not the absence of love but love without the ego's interference. The mystic's love is not less than ordinary love — it is love without the fear of loss, because nothing is left to be lost.

A Question to Sit With

Have you experienced love that didn't need anything from the other person? What made it different from love that had conditions?

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