Sikhism·Siree Raag·Shabad 137
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Kabir: The Mother and the Messenger

ੴ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਪ੍ਰਸਾਦਿ ॥
ik-oNkaar satgur parsaad.
One Universal Creator God. By The Grace Of The True Guru:
ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ ਕਬੀਰ ਜੀਉ ਕਾ ॥ ਏਕੁ ਸੁਆਨੁ ਕੈ ਘਰਿ ਗਾਵਣਾ
sireeraag kabeer jee-o kaa. ayk su-aan kai ghar gaavnaa
Siree Raag, Kabir Jee: To Be Sung To The Tune Of "Ayk Su-Aan" :
ਜਨਨੀ ਜਾਨਤ ਸੁਤੁ ਬਡਾ ਹੋਤੁ ਹੈ ਇਤਨਾ ਕੁ ਨ ਜਾਨੈ ਜਿ ਦਿਨ ਦਿਨ ਅਵਧ ਘਟਤੁ ਹੈ ॥
jannee jaanat sut badaa hot hai itnaa ko na jaanai je din din avaDh ghatat hai.
The mother thinks that her son is growing up; she does not understand that, day by day, his life is diminishing.
ਮੋਰ ਮੋਰ ਕਰਿ ਅਧਿਕ ਲਾਡੁ ਧਰਿ ਪੇਖਤ ਹੀ ਜਮਰਾਉ ਹਸੈ ॥੧॥
mor mor kar aDhik laad Dhar paykhat hee jamraa-o hasai. ||1||
Calling him, "Mine, mine", she fondles him lovingly, while the Messenger of Death looks on and laughs. ||1||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Your mom loves you so much. When she looks at you growing up, her heart fills. She calls you 'mine' and it's real — it's one of the most genuine feelings in the world.

But Kabir is pointing to something underneath that love. While she sees you growing, something else is happening at the same time: every single day, the time you have on this earth is getting a little shorter. Life isn't just expanding — it's also counting down.

And the Messenger of Death — the force that will one day come for everyone — watches all this loving and all this 'mine mine' business, and laughs. Not meanly. But because the mother doesn't see what the Messenger sees. She sees growth. He sees the clock.

This is not a sad poem about mothers. It is an honest poem about Maya — the enchanting illusion that makes permanent things out of things that change, and makes 'mine' out of things that were never ours to keep.

While the mother says 'mine,' the Messenger of Death is laughing — because he knows what she doesn't.
The deeper layer

Kabir opens with one of the most piercing images in the Bhagat tradition: the mother's love — the most tender, most unselfish love humans know — becomes an image of Maya's blindness. It is not the mother's fault. Maya does not attack us through our worst impulses; it attacks us through our best ones. Through the love for our children. Through the word 'mine.' And the Messenger of Death, who sees past the illusion, is amused — not cruelly, but because he knows something the mother does not: the clock has always been running.

A Question to Sit With

Is there something or someone in your life you hold so tightly as 'mine' that you've stopped noticing how time moves past it?

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