Sikhism·Siree Raag·Shabad 23
Verse 4 of 5

Haven't You Heard the Call from Beyond?

ਕੀ ਨ ਸੁਣੇਹੀ ਗੋਰੀਏ ਆਪਣ ਕੰਨੀ ਸੋਇ ॥
kee na sunayhee goree-ay aapan kannee so-ay.
Haven't you heard the call from beyond, O beautiful soul-bride?
ਲਗੀ ਆਵਹਿ ਸਾਹੁਰੈ ਨਿਤ ਨ ਪੇਈਆ ਹੋਇ ॥੩॥
lagee aavahi saahurai nit na pay-ee-aa ho-ay. ||3||
You must go to your in-laws; you cannot stay with your parents forever. ||3||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Haven't you heard the call from beyond — the summons that is already coming?

You must go to your in-laws' house. You cannot stay with your parents forever.

The soul-bride who has made her peace with this journey — she is ready. The one still clinging to the home she started from — she will be pulled away unprepared.

This life is the parents' house — beloved, familiar, and temporary. The deeper home was arranged long before you arrived.
The deeper layer

The marriage metaphor maps onto death: in traditional Indian culture, a daughter's departure to her husband's home was understood as inevitable — it was arranged before she was born. The soul's departure from this body follows the same structure: it was arranged before the soul arrived.

The "in-laws' house" (sasural) is the realm of the True One. The "parents' house" (peehar) is this life. You were always only visiting here.

A Question to Sit With

How do you think about where you 'belong'? Is it a place, a people, a state of being? What feels most like home to you?

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