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Verse 21 of 216

The Ego Can Only Be Forgotten in Love

ਨਉ ਖੰਡ ਪ੍ਰਿਥਮੀ ਫਿਰੈ ਚਿਰੁ ਜੀਵੈ ॥
na-o khand parithmee firai chir jeevai.
You may roam over the nine continents of the world and live a very long life;
ਮਹਾ ਉਦਾਸੁ ਤਪੀਸਰੁ ਥੀਵੈ ॥
mahaa udaas tapeesar theevai.
you may become a great ascetic and a master of disciplined meditation
ਅਗਨਿ ਮਾਹਿ ਹੋਮਤ ਪਰਾਨ ॥
agan maahi homat paraan.
and burn yourself in fire;
ਕਨਿਕ ਅਸ੍ਵ ਹੈਵਰ ਭੂਮਿ ਦਾਨ ॥
kanik asav haivar bhoom daan.
you may give away gold, horses, elephants and land;
ਨਿਉਲੀ ਕਰਮ ਕਰੈ ਬਹੁ ਆਸਨ ॥
ni-ulee karam karai baho aasan.
you may practice techniques of inner cleansing and all sorts of Yogic postures;
ਜੈਨ ਮਾਰਗ ਸੰਜਮ ਅਤਿ ਸਾਧਨ ॥
jain maarag sanjam at saaDhan.
you may adopt the self-mortifying ways of the Jains and great spiritual disciplines;
ਨਿਮਖ ਨਿਮਖ ਕਰਿ ਸਰੀਰੁ ਕਟਾਵੈ ॥
nimakh nimakh kar sareer kataavai.
piece by piece, you may cut your body apart;
ਤਉ ਭੀ ਹਉਮੈ ਮੈਲੁ ਨ ਜਾਵੈ ॥
ta-o bhee ha-umai mail na jaavai.
but even so, the filth of your ego shall not depart.
ਹਰਿ ਕੇ ਨਾਮ ਸਮਸਰਿ ਕਛੁ ਨਾਹਿ ॥
har kay naam samsar kachh naahi.
There is nothing equal to the Name of the Lord.
ਨਾਨਕ ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਜਪਤ ਗਤਿ ਪਾਹਿ ॥੨॥
naanak gurmukh naam japat gat paahi. ||2||
O Nanak, as Gurmukh, chant the Naam, and obtain salvation. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

You could roam all nine continents and live forever. You could become a famous hermit, a master of discipline, putting your body through the hardest trials there are.

You could give away gold, horses, elephants, land. You could master every cleansing technique and every posture.

You could take on the harshest disciplines ever invented and punish your own body again and again -

and the grime of the ego still would not budge. Nothing equals the Name. Nanak says: facing the Guru, keep the Name, and be free.

The ego cannot be starved, burned, or cut out - it can only be forgotten in love.
The deeper layer

Even the hardest feats cannot wash away pride.

The list grows more extreme. Roaming all nine continents. Living a very long life. Giving away gold, horses, elephants, and land. Strict body disciplines, even hurting one's own body on purpose. Then, in one line, the verdict. Ta-o bhee ha-umai mail na jaavai — even so, the dirt of the ego does not leave. Haumai is the ego, the me-first feeling.

The reason is simple. Every one of these feats can turn into a trophy for the ego. The harder the feat, the bigger the trophy. Think of someone who runs a race mostly to post about it. The winning only feeds the "look at me."

The verse names the very strict ways of some Jain monks among the others. The point is not about any faith. It is about the ego, which can hide inside any hard practice.

So trying to look holy and truly waking up can pull in opposite ways. One builds up the self. The other lets it melt.

Guru Arjan is not mocking effort. He is warning that effort aimed at making yourself pure mostly makes the self stronger.

A Question to Sit With

Can trying very hard to be humble make someone proud? How?

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