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Verse 38 of 216

Grievance Counts One Missing; Gratitude Counts Ten Given

ਅਸਟਪਦੀ ॥
asatpadee.
Ashtapadee:
ਦਸ ਬਸਤੂ ਲੇ ਪਾਛੈ ਪਾਵੈ ॥
das bastoo lay paachhai paavai.
He obtains ten things, and puts them behind him;
ਏਕ ਬਸਤੁ ਕਾਰਨਿ ਬਿਖੋਟਿ ਗਵਾਵੈ ॥
ayk basat kaaran bikhot gavaavai.
for the sake of one thing withheld, he forfeits his faith.
ਏਕ ਭੀ ਨ ਦੇਇ ਦਸ ਭੀ ਹਿਰਿ ਲੇਇ ॥
ayk bhee na day-ay das bhee hir lay-ay.
But what if that one thing were not given, and the ten were taken away?
ਤਉ ਮੂੜਾ ਕਹੁ ਕਹਾ ਕਰੇਇ ॥
ta-o moorhaa kaho kahaa karay-i.
Then, what could the fool say or do?
ਜਿਸੁ ਠਾਕੁਰ ਸਿਉ ਨਾਹੀ ਚਾਰਾ ॥
jis thaakur si-o naahee chaaraa.
Our Lord and Master cannot be moved by force.
ਤਾ ਕਉ ਕੀਜੈ ਸਦ ਨਮਸਕਾਰਾ ॥
taa ka-o keejai sad namaskaaraa.
Unto Him, bow forever in adoration.
ਜਾ ਕੈ ਮਨਿ ਲਾਗਾ ਪ੍ਰਭੁ ਮੀਠਾ ॥
jaa kai man laagaa parabh meethaa.
That one, unto whose mind God seems sweet
ਸਰਬ ਸੂਖ ਤਾਹੂ ਮਨਿ ਵੂਠਾ ॥
sarab sookh taahoo man voothaa.
- all pleasures come to abide in his mind.
ਜਿਸੁ ਜਨ ਅਪਨਾ ਹੁਕਮੁ ਮਨਾਇਆ ॥
jis jan apnaa hukam manaa-i-aa.
One who abides by the Lord's Will,
ਸਰਬ ਥੋਕ ਨਾਨਕ ਤਿਨਿ ਪਾਇਆ ॥੧॥
sarab thok naanak tin paa-i-aa. ||1||
O Nanak, obtains all things. ||1||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

You receive ten gifts and toss them behind you without a glance. One gift gets withheld - and you lose your faith over it.

But what if the one were never given, and the ten were taken back too? What would you say then?

The One cannot be forced. Bowing, adoring, trusting - that is the only approach that fits.

When the One tastes sweet to your mind, every pleasure comes to live there. Nanak says: accept the flow of the Will, and everything you need arrives.

Grievance counts the one thing missing; gratitude counts the ten already given.
The deeper layer

Grumbling counts the one thing missing, while thankfulness counts the ten already given.

Look at the math in the first lines. Das bastoo lay paachhai paavai — he takes ten things and puts them behind him. Ayk basat kaaran bikhot gavaavai — for one thing held back, he throws away his faith. Grumbling keeps perfect records. Thankfulness keeps no list at all. Think of a birthday with ten presents and one missing, and the whole party spent sulking about the one.

Then a question. What if that one were never given, and the ten were taken back too? This is not a threat. It is a check-up. Everything we hold is on loan. The next verse makes the Banker plain.

Then the turn. Jis thaakur si-o naahee chaaraa — the Master cannot be moved by force. Not by demands, deals, or tantrums. But the one whose mind finds the One sweet receives every joy, without even asking. This is hukam, the Will of the One, the flow of existence. Living by it is about lining up, not bargaining.

The last line is a full promise. Whoever lives by the Will obtains all things. Wanting and receiving stop being enemies.

A Question to Sit With

When one thing goes wrong, can you still see everything that is going right? Try counting both, honestly.

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