Sikhism·Aasaa Kee Vaar·Aasaa Kee Vaar, Pauri 1
Verse 66 of 85

Every Person Is Born From a Woman; Honor Her

ਮਃ ੧ ॥
mehlaa 1.
First Mehl:
ਭੰਡਿ ਜੰਮੀਐ ਭੰਡਿ ਨਿੰਮੀਐ ਭੰਡਿ ਮੰਗਣੁ ਵੀਆਹੁ ॥
bhand jammee-ai bhand nimmee-ai bhand mangan vee-aahu.
From woman, man is born; within woman, man is conceived; to woman he is engaged and married.
ਭੰਡਹੁ ਹੋਵੈ ਦੋਸਤੀ ਭੰਡਹੁ ਚਲੈ ਰਾਹੁ ॥
bhandahu hovai dostee bhandahu chalai raahu.
Woman becomes his friend; through woman, the future generations come.
ਭੰਡੁ ਮੁਆ ਭੰਡੁ ਭਾਲੀਐ ਭੰਡਿ ਹੋਵੈ ਬੰਧਾਨੁ ॥
bhand mu-aa bhand bhaalee-ai bhand hovai banDhaan.
When his woman dies, he seeks another woman; to woman he is bound.
ਸੋ ਕਿਉ ਮੰਦਾ ਆਖੀਐ ਜਿਤੁ ਜੰਮਹਿ ਰਾਜਾਨ ॥
so ki-o mandaa aakhee-ai jit jameh raajaan.
So why call her bad? From her, kings are born.
ਭੰਡਹੁ ਹੀ ਭੰਡੁ ਊਪਜੈ ਭੰਡੈ ਬਾਝੁ ਨ ਕੋਇ ॥
bhandahu hee bhand oopjai bhandai baajh na ko-ay.
From woman, woman is born; without woman, there would be no one at all.
ਨਾਨਕ ਭੰਡੈ ਬਾਹਰਾ ਏਕੋ ਸਚਾ ਸੋਇ ॥
naanak bhandai baahraa ayko sachaa so-ay.
O Nanak, only the True Lord is without a woman.
ਜਿਤੁ ਮੁਖਿ ਸਦਾ ਸਾਲਾਹੀਐ ਭਾਗਾ ਰਤੀ ਚਾਰਿ ॥
jit mukh sadaa salaahee-ai bhaagaa ratee chaar.
That mouth which praises the Lord continually is blessed and beautiful.
ਨਾਨਕ ਤੇ ਮੁਖ ਊਜਲੇ ਤਿਤੁ ਸਚੈ ਦਰਬਾਰਿ ॥੨॥
naanak tay mukh oojlay tit sachai darbaar. ||2||
O Nanak, those faces shall be radiant in the Court of the True Lord. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

From a woman we are born; a woman carries us and raises us; we grow up loved by women and joined in friendship to them.

From women, whole generations come. So how could anyone call woman 'bad'? From her, even kings are born! Without women, there would be no one at all.

Every person is born from a woman — so women are to be honored, never looked down on.
The deeper layer

This is one of the most celebrated verses in the entire Guru Granth Sahib — a ringing defense of women written five centuries ago, in a time and place where women were widely treated as lesser. Guru Nanak lays out the plain truth: from woman we are born; within woman we are formed; to woman we are joined in love and friendship; from woman come the generations. Every single person owes their very existence to a woman. And then the question that answers itself: so why call her bad? From her, kings are born! — without woman, there would be no one at all. It is a complete demolition of the idea that women are somehow lower or 'impure.' For Prabhjyot's boys growing up today, this is a foundational teaching to carry: women are to be honored, never looked down on — and a tradition they belong to said so, boldly, long before the world caught up. The verse ends by blessing the mouth that praises — radiant faces in the True Court belong to those who speak goodness, women and men alike.

A Question to Sit With

Why is it so important to treat girls and women with the same respect as anyone else?

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa·How we use AI

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