Sikhism·Aasaa Kee Vaar·Aasaa Kee Vaar, Pauri 1
Verse 72 of 85

Sweet to the Face, Rude Behind: False All Through

ਮਹਲਾ ੨ ॥
mehlaa 2.
Second Mehl:
ਸਲਾਮੁ ਜਬਾਬੁ ਦੋਵੈ ਕਰੇ ਮੁੰਢਹੁ ਘੁਥਾ ਜਾਇ ॥
salaam jabaab dovai karay mundhhu ghuthaa jaa-ay.
One who offers both respectful greetings and rude refusal to his master, has gone wrong from the very beginning.
ਨਾਨਕ ਦੋਵੈ ਕੂੜੀਆ ਥਾਇ ਨ ਕਾਈ ਪਾਇ ॥੨॥
naanak dovai koorhee-aa thaa-ay na kaa-ee paa-ay. ||2||
O Nanak, both of his actions are false; he obtains no place in the Court of the Lord. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Being sweet to someone's face and rude behind their back is crooked from the start.

Both halves of that two-faced act are false — neither one is worth anything.

Being sweet to someone's face and rude behind their back is false all the way through — be one honest person.
The deeper layer

A short, sharp shalok about two-faced behavior: one who offers both respectful greetings and rude refusal to his master has gone wrong from the very beginning. Being warm and polite in front of someone while being dismissive or rude behind their back — that whole game is false from the start, and both halves of it are worthless (both his actions are false). You can't be sincere in one breath and mocking in the next; the mixture poisons both. For a child: be one honest person, not two-faced. If your kindness to someone's face isn't real, the politeness counts for nothing.

A Question to Sit With

Why does being two-faced spoil even the nice things you say to someone's face?

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