Sikhism·Raag Aasaa·Shabad 144
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Union Waits on Your Pride Quieting, Not His Arriving

ਚੁਕਾ ਨਿਹੋਰਾ ਸਖੀ ਸਹੇਰੀ ॥
chukaa nihoraa sakhee sahayree.
My pride is gone, O friends and companions;
ਭਰਮੁ ਗਇਆ ਗੁਰਿ ਪਿਰ ਸੰਗਿ ਮੇਰੀ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
bharam ga-i-aa gur pir sang mayree. ||1|| rahaa-o.
my doubt is dispelled, and the Guru has united me with my Beloved. ||1||Pause||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

My pride is gone, friends; my doubt is cleared,

and the Guru has united me with my Beloved.

Union waits not on the Beloved arriving, but on your pride quieting down.
The deeper layer

This is the pause line, the center of the shabad. It names two things that had to go before the soul could meet its Beloved: pride and doubt.

Chukaa nihoraa sakhee sahayree — "my pride is gone, my friends and companions." Bharam ga-i-aa gur pir sang mayree — "my doubt is gone, and the Guru has joined me with my Beloved."

The pride is haumai, the "me first" feeling that fills us up. Once it went quiet and the doubt cleared, the Guru brought the soul to the Beloved. The meeting was not waiting on the Beloved to arrive. The Beloved was already near. It was waiting on the soul's pride to quiet down, as another shabad in Aasaa also teaches.

A Question to Sit With

What gets easier when your pride and doubts settle?

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