Sikhism·Raag Aasaa·Shabad 298
Verse 22 of 36

Owning Your Own Part Is Where Change Begins

ਦਦੈ ਦੋਸੁ ਨ ਦੇਊ ਕਿਸੈ ਦੋਸੁ ਕਰੰਮਾ ਆਪਣਿਆ ॥
dadai dos na day-oo kisai dos karammaa aapni-aa.
Dadda: Do not blame anyone else; blame instead your own actions.
ਜੋ ਮੈ ਕੀਆ ਸੋ ਮੈ ਪਾਇਆ ਦੋਸੁ ਨ ਦੀਜੈ ਅਵਰ ਜਨਾ ॥੨੧॥
jo mai kee-aa so mai paa-i-aa dos na deejai avar janaa. ||21||
Whatever I did, for that I have suffered; I do not blame anyone else. ||21||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Don't go pointing fingers at anyone else. Look honestly at what you yourself did.

Whatever I brought about, I'm the one who felt the results — I don't blame another soul.

Blaming others changes nothing — owning your own part is where the power to change begins.
The deeper layer

The letter Dadda (dental) teaches personal honesty as clearly as the poem ever gets: dos na day- oo kis no dos karammaa aapni-aa — don't blame others; look to your own actions. And then the poet models it in the first person: jo mai kee-aa so mai paa-i-aa — whatever I did, I received; dos na deejai avar jan, I blame no one else. This is a gift, not a burden: if your troubles trace back to your own choices, then your choices can also change your path. Taking responsibility is the beginning of power, not the end of comfort.

A Question to Sit With

Is there something small you could take honest responsibility for instead of blaming someone else?

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