Sikhism·Raag Aasaa·Shabad 300
Verse 3 of 4

It's Okay to Still Be Longing at the Door

ਸਖੀਹੋ ਸਹੇਲੜੀਹੋ ਮੇਰਾ ਪਿਰੁ ਵਣਜਾਰਾ ਰਾਮ ॥
sakheeho sahaylrheeho mayraa pir vanjaaraa raam.
O my companions and friends, my Husband Lord is the merchant.
ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮੋੁ ਵਣੰਜੜਿਆ ਰਸਿ ਮੋਲਿ ਅਪਾਰਾ ਰਾਮ ॥
har naamo vananjrhi-aa ras mol apaaraa raam.
I have purchased the Lord's Name; its sweetness and value are unlimited.
ਮੋਲਿ ਅਮੋਲੋ ਸਚ ਘਰਿ ਢੋਲੋ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਭਾਵੈ ਤਾ ਮੁੰਧ ਭਲੀ ॥
mol amolo sach ghar dholo parabh bhaavai taa munDh bhalee.
His value is invaluable; the Beloved dwells in His true home. If it is pleasing to God, then He blesses His bride.
ਇਕਿ ਸੰਗਿ ਹਰਿ ਕੈ ਕਰਹਿ ਰਲੀਆ ਹਉ ਪੁਕਾਰੀ ਦਰਿ ਖਲੀ ॥
ik sang har kai karahi ralee-aa ha-o pukaaree dar khalee.
Some enjoy sweet pleasures with the Lord, while I stand crying at His door.
ਕਰਣ ਕਾਰਣ ਸਮਰਥ ਸ੍ਰੀਧਰ ਆਪਿ ਕਾਰਜੁ ਸਾਰਏ ॥
karan kaaran samrath sareeDhar aap kaaraj saar-ay.
The Creator, the Cause of causes, the All-powerful Lord Himself arranges our affairs.
ਨਾਨਕ ਨਦਰੀ ਧਨ ਸੋਹਾਗਣਿ ਸਬਦੁ ਅਭ ਸਾਧਾਰਏ ॥੩॥
naanak nadree Dhan sohagan sabad abh saaDhaar-ay. ||3||
O Nanak, blessed is the soul-bride, upon whom He casts His Glance of Grace; she enshrines the Word of the Shabad in her heart. ||3||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

My friends, the One I love deals in the very best treasure — and I've found it: a sweetness beyond any price.

Some people already feel close and full of joy, while I'm still standing at the door, longing to be let in. But the One who arranges all things is kind, and blesses whoever the loving glance falls upon.

It's okay to still be longing at the door while others feel close — the door does open.
The deeper layer

This verse is honest about the unevenness of longing — a note children rarely hear made safe. The Beloved is a merchant dealing in the priceless Name, and the singer has bought it — its sweetness unlimited. Yet she admits: ka-oo ras bhog... ha-o kandee kai duaar — some already enjoy the sweetness while I stand crying at the door, still waiting. This isn't despair; it's the truthfulness that keeps a heart from pretending. And it rests in trust: the Cause of causes arranges our affairs, and grace can fall on anyone, any time. Standing at the door, still longing, is itself part of the love — and the door does open.

A Question to Sit With

Is it alright to admit when you still feel like you're waiting for something good? Why?

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