Sikhism·Raag Aasaa·Shabad 302
Verse 2 of 4

Only One Friend Can Walk With You the Whole Way

ਮੇਰਾ ਮਨੋ ਮੇਰਾ ਮਨੁ ਮਾਨਿਆ ਨਾਮੁ ਸਖਾਈ ਰਾਮ ॥
mayraa mano mayraa man maani-aa naam sakhaa-ee raam.
My mind, my mind has come to accept, that the Naam is our only Friend.
ਹਉਮੈ ਮਮਤਾ ਮਾਇਆ ਸੰਗਿ ਨ ਜਾਈ ਰਾਮ ॥
ha-umai mamtaa maa-i-aa sang na jaa-ee raam.
Egotism, worldly attachment, and the lures of Maya shall not go with you.
ਮਾਤਾ ਪਿਤ ਭਾਈ ਸੁਤ ਚਤੁਰਾਈ ਸੰਗਿ ਨ ਸੰਪੈ ਨਾਰੇ ॥
maataa pit bhaa-ee sut chaturaa-ee sang na sampai naaray.
Mother, father, famliy, children, cleverness, property and spouses - none of these shall go with you.
ਸਾਇਰ ਕੀ ਪੁਤ੍ਰੀ ਪਰਹਰਿ ਤਿਆਗੀ ਚਰਣ ਤਲੈ ਵੀਚਾਰੇ ॥
saa-ir kee putree parhar ti-aagee charan talai veechaaray.
I have renounced Maya, the daughter of the ocean; reflecting upon reality, I have trampled it under my feet.
ਆਦਿ ਪੁਰਖਿ ਇਕੁ ਚਲਤੁ ਦਿਖਾਇਆ ਜਹ ਦੇਖਾ ਤਹ ਸੋਈ ॥
aad purakh ik chalat dikhaa-i-aa jah daykhaa tah so-ee.
The Primal Lord has revealed this wondrous show; wherever I look, there I see Him.
ਨਾਨਕ ਹਰਿ ਕੀ ਭਗਤਿ ਨ ਛੋਡਉ ਸਹਜੇ ਹੋਇ ਸੁ ਹੋਈ ॥੨॥
naanak har kee bhagat na chhoda-o sehjay ho-ay so ho-ee. ||2||
O Nanak, I shall not forsake the Lord's devotional worship; in the natural course, what shall be, shall be. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

My heart has finally understood: the One is the only Friend who truly stays with me.

Not stuff, not cleverness, not even the people I love most can follow me all the way — but that One never leaves.

Many things and people are precious — but only one Friend can walk with you the whole way.
The deeper layer

The verse lists, without coldness, everything that cannot be your final companion: ego, attachment, Maya's lures — and then, tenderly, mother, father, family, children, cleverness, property — all dear, none able to go with you to the end. Only the Name stays. This isn't a rejection of loved ones; it's a clear-eyed sorting of what is ultimate from what is precious-but-passing. And it ends not grimly but in wonder: jit dekhaa tit soi — wherever I look, there I see Him. Once the one lasting Friend is found, the whole world lights up with that presence.

A Question to Sit With

Who and what are precious to you, even knowing that some things can't last forever?

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