Sikhism·Raag Aasaa·Shabad 354
Verse 3 of 6

Give Your Best Where It Will Be Welcomed

ਕਊਆ ਕਹਾ ਕਪੂਰ ਚਰਾਏ ॥
ka-oo-aa kahaa kapoor charaa-ay.
Why offer camphor to a crow?
ਕਹ ਬਿਸੀਅਰ ਕਉ ਦੂਧੁ ਪੀਆਏ ॥੨॥
kah bisee-ar ka-o dooDh pee-aa-ay. ||2||
Why give the snake milk to drink? ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Some gifts are wasted on someone who can't appreciate them, like fine perfume offered to a crow.

It's not unkind to notice this — it's just being wise about where things fit.

Not every good thing fits everywhere — it's wise to give your best where it will actually be welcomed.
The deeper layer

Kabir gives two more homely images of mismatched gifts: offering camphor (a precious fragrance) to a crow, or milk to a snake — good things given where they can't be appreciated or will even be misused. He's not being cruel to crows or snakes; he's making a point about fittingness: not every good thing belongs everywhere. Precious things should go where they'll be received well. For a child, this is a bit of everyday wisdom: it's not unkind to notice that some gifts, some words, some efforts are wasted in certain places — it's just wise to give your best where it will actually be welcomed and do good. Discernment about where to give is part of generosity, not the opposite of it.

A Question to Sit With

Why might it be smart to share something special with people who'll truly appreciate it?

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