Sikhism·Raag Aasaa·Shabad 94
Verse 3 of 5

The Longing Runs Both Ways

ਜਿਚਰੁ ਵਸੀ ਪਿਤਾ ਕੈ ਸਾਥਿ ॥
jichar vasee pitaa kai saath.
As long as she lived with her father,
ਤਿਚਰੁ ਕੰਤੁ ਬਹੁ ਫਿਰੈ ਉਦਾਸਿ ॥
tichar kant baho firai udaas.
her Husband wandered around in sadness.
ਕਰਿ ਸੇਵਾ ਸਤ ਪੁਰਖੁ ਮਨਾਇਆ ॥
kar sayvaa sat purakh manaa-i-aa.
I served and surrendered to the Lord, the True Being;
ਗੁਰਿ ਆਣੀ ਘਰ ਮਹਿ ਤਾ ਸਰਬ ਸੁਖ ਪਾਇਆ ॥੨॥
gur aanee ghar meh taa sarab sukh paa-i-aa. ||2||
the Guru brought my bride to my home, and I obtained total happiness. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

As long as she stayed in her father's house, her Husband wandered sad and alone.

I served and surrendered to the True One; the Guru brought my bride home, and I found complete happiness.

The longing runs both ways — the Beloved aches for the soul just as the soul aches for the Beloved.
The deeper layer

This one has a tender surprise: the longing goes both ways.

The bride is still living in her father's house. That means this life, before she wakes up to the One. And all that time, her Husband wanders around sad.

So the Beloved longs for the soul too. Think of a parent waiting at the door for a child who is late. The child may not know it, but someone is waiting.

Then come service and surrender. The Guru brings the bride home. The long ache on both sides turns into joy.

A Question to Sit With

How does it change things to imagine you are not only seeking, but being sought?

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