Sikhism·Raag Bilaaval·Shabad 173
Verse 30 of 40

The Word That Loosens The Grip Of Ego

ਮਃ ੩ ॥
mehlaa 3.
Third Mehl:
ਹਉਮੈ ਮਾਇਆ ਮੋਹਣੀ ਦੂਜੈ ਲਗੈ ਜਾਇ ॥
ha-umai maa-i-aa mohnee doojai lagai jaa-ay.
Through egotism, fascination with Maya has trapped them in duality.
ਨਾ ਇਹ ਮਾਰੀ ਨ ਮਰੈ ਨਾ ਇਹ ਹਟਿ ਵਿਕਾਇ ॥
naa ih maaree na marai naa ih hat vikaa-ay.
It cannot be killed, it does not die, and it cannot be sold in a store.
ਗੁਰ ਕੈ ਸਬਦਿ ਪਰਜਾਲੀਐ ਤਾ ਇਹ ਵਿਚਹੁ ਜਾਇ ॥
gur kai sabad parjaalee-ai taa ih vichahu jaa-ay.
Through the Word of the Guru's Shabad, it is burnt away, and then it departs from within.
ਤਨੁ ਮਨੁ ਹੋਵੈ ਉਜਲਾ ਨਾਮੁ ਵਸੈ ਮਨਿ ਆਇ ॥
tan man hovai ujlaa naam vasai man aa-ay.
The body and mind become pure, and the Naam, the Name of the Lord, comes to dwell within the mind.
ਨਾਨਕ ਮਾਇਆ ਕਾ ਮਾਰਣੁ ਸਬਦੁ ਹੈ ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਪਾਇਆ ਜਾਇ ॥੨॥
naanak maa-i-aa kaa maaran sabad hai gurmukh paa-i-aa jaa-ay. ||2||
O Nanak, the Shabad is the killer of Maya; the Gurmukh obtains it. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Through ego, the pull of things ties a heart up in wanting-two-directions.

That grip can't be forced away, or bargained off, or sold.

But the Guru's Word gently loosens it, and then it lets go from inside.

Body and mind grow clear, and the Name comes to live within.

Nanak says: the Word is what dissolves the grip -- and it comes to those turned toward the Guru.

You can't force ego to let go -- but the right words can quietly loosen its grip.
The deeper layer

A Guru Amar Das shalok. Maa-i-aa mohnee (the enchanting pull of things) is described as something you cannot simply kill, sell, or force away -- an honest observation about how stubborn ego and craving are. The one thing that works is the shabad (the Word), which parjaalee-ai -- dissolves it gently from within. The "burning" and "killing" are a loosening and dissolving: ego is a grip to be released, not an enemy to be destroyed.

A Question to Sit With

Have you noticed that some habits can't be forced away but fade when something better takes their place?

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