Sikhism·Raag Bilaaval·Shabad 173
Verse 40 of 40

The Guru Who Holds No Grudge

ਪਉੜੀ ॥
pa-orhee.
Pauree:
ਕੋਈ ਨਿੰਦਕੁ ਹੋਵੈ ਸਤਿਗੁਰੂ ਕਾ ਫਿਰਿ ਸਰਣਿ ਗੁਰ ਆਵੈ ॥
ko-ee nindak hovai satguroo kaa fir saran gur aavai.
If someone slanders the True Guru, and then comes seeking the Guru's Protection,
ਪਿਛਲੇ ਗੁਨਹ ਸਤਿਗੁਰੁ ਬਖਸਿ ਲਏ ਸਤਸੰਗਤਿ ਨਾਲਿ ਰਲਾਵੈ ॥
pichhlay gunah satgur bakhas la-ay satsangat naal ralaavai.
the True Guru forgives him for his past sins, and unites him with the Saints' Congregation.
ਜਿਉ ਮੀਹਿ ਵੁਠੈ ਗਲੀਆ ਨਾਲਿਆ ਟੋਭਿਆ ਕਾ ਜਲੁ ਜਾਇ ਪਵੈ ਵਿਚਿ ਸੁਰਸਰੀ ਸੁਰਸਰੀ ਮਿਲਤ ਪਵਿਤ੍ਰੁ ਪਾਵਨੁ ਹੋਇ ਜਾਵੈ ॥
ji-o meehi vuthai galee-aa naali-aa tobhi-aa kaa jal jaa-ay pavai vich sursaree sursaree milat pavitar paavan ho-ay jaavai.
When the rain falls, the water in the streams, rivers and ponds flows into the Ganges; flowing into the Ganges, it is made sacred and pure.
ਏਹ ਵਡਿਆਈ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਨਿਰਵੈਰ ਵਿਚਿ ਜਿਤੁ ਮਿਲਿਐ ਤਿਸਨਾ ਭੁਖ ਉਤਰੈ ਹਰਿ ਸਾਂਤਿ ਤੜ ਆਵੈ ॥
ayh vadi-aa-ee satgur nirvair vich jit mili-ai tisnaa bhukh utrai har saaNt tarh aavai.
Such is the glorious greatness of the True Guru, who has no vengeance; meeting with Him, thirst and hunger are quenched, and instantly, one attains celestial peace.
ਨਾਨਕ ਇਹੁ ਅਚਰਜੁ ਦੇਖਹੁ ਮੇਰੇ ਹਰਿ ਸਚੇ ਸਾਹ ਕਾ ਜਿ ਸਤਿਗੁਰੂ ਨੋ ਮੰਨੈ ਸੁ ਸਭਨਾਂ ਭਾਵੈ ॥੧੩॥੧॥ ਸੁਧੁ ॥
naanak ih achraj daykhhu mayray har sachay saah kaa je satguroo no mannai so sabhnaaN bhaavai. ||13||1|| suDh.
O Nanak, behold this wonder of the Lord, my True King! Everyone is pleased with one who obeys and believes in the True Guru. ||13||1|| Sudh||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Even if someone once spoke against the Guru and then comes seeking the Guru's shelter,

the Guru forgives what is past and gathers them warmly into the Sangat.

It is like rain. The water in ditches and streams and ponds all flows into the great river. Flowing in, it becomes clean and pure.

This is the greatness of the Guru, who holds no grudge at all. Meeting the Guru, the endless hunger settles, and a deep peace arrives at once.

Nanak says: behold this wonder of my True King -- everyone is glad with the one who trusts the Guru.

The greatest strength is a heart with no grudge -- one that welcomes back even the one who wronged it.
The deeper layer

The True Guru holds no grudge, and forgives anyone who comes back.

This is the last pauri of the Vaar, by Guru Ram Das. Earlier verses spoke of people who found fault with the Guru. Here they get their answer, and it is kindness.

Ko-ee nindak hovai satguroo kaa fir saran gur aavai — if someone slandered the True Guru and then comes back for shelter. Nindak means someone who speaks against another. Pichhlay gunah satgur bakhas la-ay — the True Guru forgives the past wrongs. They are welcomed into the satsangat -- the Sangat.

If someone is being unkind to you or hurting you, that is never something you have to accept. Telling a grown-up you trust is always the right thing to do.

Then comes a lovely picture. Rain falls. Water from dirty ditches and little streams flows into the great river, the Ganga, and becomes clean. That is change, not punishment.

Nirvair means without any enemy, holding no grudge. That is the Guru's greatness. Meeting such a Guru, the hunger of wanting settles, and peace comes at once.

The Vaar ends on wonder, not on a verdict against anyone. Everyone is glad with the one who trusts the Guru.

A Question to Sit With

Is there someone you could welcome back, or forgive, the way the river takes in every stream?

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa·How we use AI

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