Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa
I keep the words of my Beloved close in my heart — this is the best way of all.
A bride may be bent-backed and small, but if her Beloved loves her, she becomes beautiful, and she melts into the One's embrace.
The answer to "which road?" turns out to be startlingly simple: keep the Beloved's words in your heart. Not pilgrimage, not ritual — cherishing what the One has said. Then comes one of Gurbani's most tender images, and it needs care. The "hunch-backed, short" bride is not a comment about anyone's body; it is the soul that feels unlovely, unworthy, not good enough. The teaching is radical: worthiness is not the entry price for love. The soul does not become beautiful and then get loved; she is loved, and that is what makes her beautiful. Love runs the other direction from how we assume. This is the same grace-before-works truth that runs through the whole tradition.
Is it possible that being loved comes first, and feeling good about yourself comes after?
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