Sikhism·Raag Gauree·Shabad 240
Verse 6 of 9

The Heart's Questions Narrow to the One Real Friend

ਤੁਝ ਬਿਨੁ ਕੋਇ ਨ ਦੇਖਉ ਮੀਤੁ ॥
tujh bin ko-ay na daykh-a-u meet.
Without You, I see no friend at all.
ਕਿਸੁ ਸੇਵਉ ਕਿਸੁ ਦੇਵਉ ਚੀਤੁ ॥
kis sayva-o kis dayva-o cheet.
Whom should I serve? Unto whom should I dedicate my consciousness?
ਕਿਸੁ ਪੂਛਉ ਕਿਸੁ ਲਾਗਉ ਪਾਇ ॥
kis poochha-o kis laaga-o paa-ay.
Whom should I ask? At whose feet should I fall?
ਕਿਸੁ ਉਪਦੇਸਿ ਰਹਾ ਲਿਵ ਲਾਇ ॥੫॥
kis updays rahaa liv laa-ay. ||5||
By whose teachings will I remain absorbed in His Love? ||5||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Without You, I look around and see no true friend anywhere.

Whom would I serve? To whom would I give my whole heart?

Whom would I ask? At whose feet would I sit to learn?

By whose teaching could I stay steadily absorbed in this love?

The heart's questions narrow to one: the Divine confessed as ultimate friend and refuge.
The deeper layer

The heart asks many questions, and they all lead to one answer: the One is the true friend.

This verse is all longing, all questions. Tujh bin ko-ay na daykh-a-u meet — without You, I see no friend. Then the Guru asks: whom should I serve? To whom should I give my heart? Whom should I ask? At whose feet should I sit?

These questions are not doubt. They are the heart narrowing down to one answer. Think of a child in a big crowd who keeps looking around, and then spots a parent's face. All the looking ends in that one face.

This is ik, Oneness, felt up close. There is no second one to turn to. It is the Guru's own heart speaking of the One as the deepest friend and safe place. It does not tell anyone to go without human friends, teachers, or help. Those are gifts too.

A Question to Sit With

Who is the person you'd turn to first with your biggest question — and what makes you trust them that much?

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