Sikhism·Raag Gauree·Shabad 287
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When Love Reaches Through You, the Tug-of-War Quiets

ਗਉੜੀ ਮਹਲਾ ੩ ॥
ga-orhee mehlaa 3.
Gauree, Third Mehl:
ਕਾਮਣਿ ਹਰਿ ਰਸਿ ਬੇਧੀ ਜੀਉ ਹਰਿ ਕੈ ਸਹਜਿ ਸੁਭਾਏ ॥
kaaman har ras bayDhee jee-o har kai sahj subhaa-ay.
The soul-bride is pierced through with the sublime essence of the Lord, in intuitive peace and poise.
ਮਨੁ ਮੋਹਨਿ ਮੋਹਿ ਲੀਆ ਜੀਉ ਦੁਬਿਧਾ ਸਹਜਿ ਸਮਾਏ ॥
man mohan mohi lee-aa jee-o dubiDhaa sahj samaa-ay.
The Enticer of hearts has enticed her, and her sense of duality has been easily dispelled.
ਦੁਬਿਧਾ ਸਹਜਿ ਸਮਾਏ ਕਾਮਣਿ ਵਰੁ ਪਾਏ ਗੁਰਮਤੀ ਰੰਗੁ ਲਾਏ ॥
dubiDhaa sahj samaa-ay kaaman var paa-ay gurmatee rang laa-ay.
Her sense of duality has been easily dispelled, and the soul-bride obtains her Husband Lord; following the Guru's Teachings, she makes merry.
ਇਹੁ ਸਰੀਰੁ ਕੂੜਿ ਕੁਸਤਿ ਭਰਿਆ ਗਲ ਤਾਈ ਪਾਪ ਕਮਾਏ ॥
ih sareer koorh kusat bhari-aa gal taa-ee paap kamaa-ay.
This body is filled to overflowing with falsehood, deception and the commission of sins.
ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਭਗਤਿ ਜਿਤੁ ਸਹਜ ਧੁਨਿ ਉਪਜੈ ਬਿਨੁ ਭਗਤੀ ਮੈਲੁ ਨ ਜਾਏ ॥
gurmukh bhagat jit sahj Dhun upjai bin bhagtee mail na jaa-ay.
The Gurmukh practices that devotional worship, by which the celestial music wells up; without this devotional worship, filth is not removed.
ਨਾਨਕ ਕਾਮਣਿ ਪਿਰਹਿ ਪਿਆਰੀ ਵਿਚਹੁ ਆਪੁ ਗਵਾਏ ॥੧॥
naanak kaaman pireh pi-aaree vichahu aap gavaa-ay. ||1||
O Nanak, the soul-bride who sheds selfishness and conceit from within, is dear to her Beloved. ||1||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

When love for the One goes all the way through you, it settles you. It takes hold of your heart so gently that the pull in two directions — the part of you that wants this and the part that wants that — quietly comes to rest.

Following the teaching, you find the One you were looking for, and your whole life fills with color.

A heart can get crowded with pretending and small wrongs, right up to the top. But there is a kind of loving attention that clears it out, the way music can well up inside you and make everything else go still. Without that, the crowding stays.

The one who lets go of showing off and self-importance becomes dear to the One — closest of all.

When love reaches all the way through you, the tug-of-war inside goes quiet.
The deeper layer

This chhant opens with the soul-bride (kaaman) frame that runs through much of Gurbani: the soul longing for and united with the Beloved. It is a vehicle, not a statement about gender — the "bride" is any human soul, boy or girl. Sahj (intuitive peace, natural ease) appears three times: love arrives not by force but by settling. Dubidhaa — being pulled two ways, double-mindedness — dissolves in that ease. The hard line about the body "filled with falsehood" is not self-hatred; it names the ordinary clutter of pretending and small harm that bhagti (loving devotion) clears, the way sahj dhun — the celestial music — wells up and quiets the noise. The closing note is the whole raag in miniature: shedding aap (self-importance) is what makes a soul beloved.

A Question to Sit With

When has doing something you love made all the noisy, pulling thoughts in your head go still?

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