Sikhism·Raag Maaroo·Shabad 43
Verse 4 of 5

Weights We Tie Ourselves

ਹਉ ਹਉ ਕਰਮ ਕਮਾਣੇ ॥
ha-o ha-o karam kamaanay.
All the deeds done in egotism,
ਤੇ ਤੇ ਬੰਧ ਗਲਾਣੇ ॥
tay tay banDh galaanay.
are just chains around the neck.
ਮੇਰੀ ਮੇਰੀ ਧਾਰੀ ॥
mayree mayree Dhaaree.
Harboring self-conceit and self-interest
ਓਹਾ ਪੈਰਿ ਲੋਹਾਰੀ ॥
ohaa pair lohaaree.
is just like placing chains around one's ankles.
ਸੋ ਗੁਰ ਮਿਲਿ ਏਕੁ ਪਛਾਣੈ ॥
so gur mil ayk pachhaanai.
He alone meets with the Guru, and realizes the One Lord,
ਜਿਸੁ ਹੋਵੈ ਭਾਗੁ ਮਥਾਣੈ ॥੩॥
jis hovai bhaag mathaanai. ||3||
who has such destiny written on his forehead. ||3||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

The things we do only to puff up the "me" become like weights we hang around our own necks.

Clutching "mine, mine, mine" is like tying our own ankles together. Whoever meets the Guru sets it all down and sees the One. That blessing is written on their forehead.

Clutching "mine, mine" ties weights onto yourself.
The deeper layer

When we do things only to show off, or cling to "mine, mine," we tie weights on ourselves.

Ha-o ha-o karam kamaanay — deeds done for "I, I." The verse says these become chains around the neck. Mayree mayree Dhaaree — holding on to "mine, mine." That is like chains around your own ankles.

Picture someone running a race with a heavy bag on their back and their shoelaces tied together. Nobody else did that to them. They did it to themselves, one "me" and one "mine" at a time.

The way out is to meet the Guru and see the One. Then the weights can be set down. The verse says this happens to the one who has that blessing written on their forehead. It means it comes as a gift, not as a prize we win.

A Question to Sit With

What is something you cling to that weighs you down?

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