Sikhism·Raag Malaar·Shabad 71
Verse 73 of 86

Bearing What Feels Unbearable

ਮਃ ੧ ॥
mehlaa 1.
First Mehl:
ਅਜਰੁ ਜਰੈ ਤ ਨਉ ਕੁਲ ਬੰਧੁ ॥
ajar jarai ta na-o kul banDh.
One who bears the unbearable, controls the nine holes of the body.
ਪੂਜੈ ਪ੍ਰਾਣ ਹੋਵੈ ਥਿਰੁ ਕੰਧੁ ॥
poojai paraan hovai thir kanDh.
One who worships and adores the Lord with his breath of life, gains stability in his body-wall.
ਕਹਾਂ ਤੇ ਆਇਆ ਕਹਾਂ ਏਹੁ ਜਾਣੁ ॥
kahaaN tay aa-i-aa kahaaN ayhu jaan.
Where has he come from, and where will he go?
ਜੀਵਤ ਮਰਤ ਰਹੈ ਪਰਵਾਣੁ ॥
jeevat marat rahai parvaan.
Remaining dead while yet alive, he is accepted and approved.
ਹੁਕਮੈ ਬੂਝੈ ਤਤੁ ਪਛਾਣੈ ॥
hukmai boojhai tat pachhaanai.
Whoever understands the Hukam of the Lord's Command, realizes the essence of reality.
ਇਹੁ ਪਰਸਾਦੁ ਗੁਰੂ ਤੇ ਜਾਣੈ ॥
ih parsaad guroo tay jaanai.
This is known by Guru's Grace.
ਹੋਂਦਾ ਫੜੀਅਗੁ ਨਾਨਕ ਜਾਣੁ ॥
hoNdaa farhee-ag naanak jaan.
O Nanak, know this: egotism leads to bondage.
ਨਾ ਹਉ ਨਾ ਮੈ ਜੂਨੀ ਪਾਣੁ ॥੨॥
naa ha-o naa mai joonee paan. ||2||
Only those who have no ego and no self-conceit, are not consigned to reincarnation. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Whoever bears what is too hard to bear keeps the nine doors of the body in check.

Whoever loves the One with every breath stands steady, like a strong wall.

Where did this person come from, and where will they go?

Whoever lets the self die away while still alive is welcomed by the One.

Whoever understands the flow of the One's will knows what lies at the heart of everything.

This is known by the Guru's grace.

Nanak says: know this, holding on to "I" is what ties you up.

Only those with no "I" and no "me" are not sent around again into birth.

Bearing the heavy thing steadies you more than escaping it would.
The deeper layer

Bearing the hard thing makes you steady. Letting go of "I" sets you free.

Ajar jarai ta na-o kul bandh: whoever bears the unbearable keeps the nine doors of the body, the eyes, ears, nose and mouth, from running wild. Poojai paraan hovai thir kandh: loving the One with every breath makes the body steady, like a strong wall.

Jeevat marat rahai parvaan: staying "dead while alive" means letting the grabbing self go quiet while you live fully. Hukmai boojhai tat pachhaanai: understanding the hukam, the flow of the One's will, you reach the heart of things, and this comes as the Guru's gift. Haumai, ego (the feeling of being a separate self), is what binds; without "I" and "me," the circling of birth stops.

A Question to Sit With

What is something hard you carried that made you stronger, not smaller?

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