Sikhism·Raag Raamkalee·Shabad 105
Verse 4 of 6

Do Not Grieve for Me

ਸਤਿਗੁਰਿ ਭਾਣੈ ਆਪਣੈ ਬਹਿ ਪਰਵਾਰੁ ਸਦਾਇਆ ॥
satgur bhaanai aapnai bahi parvaar sadaa-i-aa.
The True Guru, in His Own Sweet Will, sat up and summoned His family.
ਮਤ ਮੈ ਪਿਛੈ ਕੋਈ ਰੋਵਸੀ ਸੋ ਮੈ ਮੂਲਿ ਨ ਭਾਇਆ ॥
mat mai pichhai ko-ee rovsee so mai mool na bhaa-i-aa.
Let no one weep for me after I am gone. That would not please me at all.
ਮਿਤੁ ਪੈਝੈ ਮਿਤੁ ਬਿਗਸੈ ਜਿਸੁ ਮਿਤ ਕੀ ਪੈਜ ਭਾਵਏ ॥
mit paijhai mit bigsai jis mit kee paij bhaav-ay.
When a friend receives a robe of honor, then his friends are pleased with his honor.
ਤੁਸੀ ਵੀਚਾਰਿ ਦੇਖਹੁ ਪੁਤ ਭਾਈ ਹਰਿ ਸਤਿਗੁਰੂ ਪੈਨਾਵਏ ॥
tusee veechaar daykhhu put bhaa-ee har satguroo painaava-ay.
Consider this and see, O my children and siblings; the Lord has given the True Guru the robe of supreme honor.
ਸਤਿਗੁਰੂ ਪਰਤਖਿ ਹੋਦੈ ਬਹਿ ਰਾਜੁ ਆਪਿ ਟਿਕਾਇਆ ॥
satguroo partakh hodai bahi raaj aap tikaa-i-aa.
The True Guru Himself sat up, and appointed the successor to the Throne of Raja Yoga, the Yoga of Meditation and Success.
ਸਭਿ ਸਿਖ ਬੰਧਪ ਪੁਤ ਭਾਈ ਰਾਮਦਾਸ ਪੈਰੀ ਪਾਇਆ ॥੪॥
sabh sikh banDhap put bhaa-ee raamdaas pairee paa-i-aa. ||4||
All the Sikhs, relatives, children and siblings have fallen at the Feet of Guru Ram Das. ||4||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

The True Guru, at ease within, sat up and called the whole family close.

"Let no one cry for me once I am gone — that would not please me at all.

When a friend is given a robe of honor, the friend's friends are glad to see that honor.

Look and understand, my children and family: the One has given the True Guru the robe of highest honor."

The True Guru sat up and chose who would sit on the throne of Raj Yog — ruling and remembering the One together.

All the Sikhs, relatives, children and family bowed at the feet of Guru Ram Das.

Love for someone can look like being glad for them, even in goodbye.
The deeper layer

The Guru asks his family not to cry for him, because he is going somewhere wonderful.

This is the tender heart of the Sadd, the poem of "the Call." Mat mai pichhai ko-ee rovsee means "let no one weep for me after I am gone."

He shows why with a picture. Mit paijhai mit bigsai means "when a friend is given a robe of honor, the friend's friends are glad." Think of your best friend getting a big prize at school. You would not cry. You would cheer. When someone we love arrives somewhere wonderful, love looks like gladness for them.

Then the Guru calmly chooses who will carry the teaching on. He passes the guruship to Ram Das, who becomes the fourth Guru. It is a careful act of love, not a loss. The whole family bows to him.

A Question to Sit With

Can you think of a goodbye that was also something to celebrate?

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