Sikhism·Raag Soohee·Shabad 135
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The Distance Was Never on Your Side

ੴ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਪ੍ਰਸਾਦਿ ॥
ik-oNkaar satgur parsaad.
One Universal Creator God. By The Grace Of The True Guru:
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ ਬਾਣੀ ਸੇਖ ਫਰੀਦ ਜੀ ਕੀ ॥
raag soohee banee saykh fareed jee kee.
Raag Soohee, The Word Of Shaykh Fareed Jee:
ਤਪਿ ਤਪਿ ਲੁਹਿ ਲੁਹਿ ਹਾਥ ਮਰੋਰਉ ॥
tap tap luhi luhi haath marora-o.
Burning and burning, writhing in pain, I wring my hands.
ਬਾਵਲਿ ਹੋਈ ਸੋ ਸਹੁ ਲੋਰਉ ॥
baaval ho-ee so saho lora-o.
I have gone insane, seeking my Husband Lord.
ਤੈ ਸਹਿ ਮਨ ਮਹਿ ਕੀਆ ਰੋਸੁ ॥
tai seh man meh kee-aa ros.
O my Husband Lord, You are angry with me in Your Mind.
ਮੁਝੁ ਅਵਗਨ ਸਹ ਨਾਹੀ ਦੋਸੁ ॥੧॥
mujh avgan sah naahee dos. ||1||
The fault is with me, and not with my Husband Lord. ||1||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

There is only One. And the One is found by the True Guru's grace — a gift that is always here, waiting for an open heart.

Aching and aching with longing, I twist my hands.

I have gone half-wild, searching for my Beloved.

My Beloved, it feels as if You are upset with me.

But the distance is on my side, never on Yours.

When we feel far from love, the distance is on our side — and that means it can always be closed.
The deeper layer

This verse is about missing someone so much that it aches, and then seeing where the distance really lies.

These words are by Shaykh Farid, a much-loved Muslim Sufi saint. Sufis are Muslims who seek God through love. The Gurus honored his songs by placing them in the Guru Granth Sahib.

Tap tap luhi luhi haath marora-o: the old words picture burning and twisting in pain, wringing the hands. Their meaning is the deep ache of longing. Baaval ho-ee so saho lora-o: I have gone half-wild, searching for my Beloved. Think of a child who has lost sight of a parent in a crowded store, looking everywhere at once.

Tai seh man meh kee-aa ros: it seems You are upset with me. Mujh avgan sah naahee dos: the fault is mine, not the Beloved's. This is honest and tender, not harsh. The Beloved never turned away. The gap is only on our side, and that means we can always close it by turning back with love.

A Question to Sit With

When you feel distant from someone you love, what is one small way to turn back toward them?

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