Sikhism·Raag Sorath·Shabad 149
Verse 42 of 87

Loved Equally, Like Family

ਪਉੜੀ ॥
pa-orhee.
Pauree:
ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਸਖੀਆ ਸਿਖ ਗੁਰੂ ਮੇਲਾਈਆ ॥
gurmukh sakhee-aa sikh guroo maylaa-ee-aa.
The Guru unites His Sikhs, the Gurmukhs, with the Lord.
ਇਕਿ ਸੇਵਕ ਗੁਰ ਪਾਸਿ ਇਕਿ ਗੁਰਿ ਕਾਰੈ ਲਾਈਆ ॥
ik sayvak gur paas ik gur kaarai laa-ee-aa.
The Guru keeps some of them with Himself, and engages others in His Service.
ਜਿਨਾ ਗੁਰੁ ਪਿਆਰਾ ਮਨਿ ਚਿਤਿ ਤਿਨਾ ਭਾਉ ਗੁਰੂ ਦੇਵਾਈਆ ॥
jinaa gur pi-aaraa man chit tinaa bhaa-o guroo dayvaa-ee-aa.
Those who cherish their Beloved in their conscious minds, the Guru blesses them with His Love.
ਗੁਰ ਸਿਖਾ ਇਕੋ ਪਿਆਰੁ ਗੁਰ ਮਿਤਾ ਪੁਤਾ ਭਾਈਆ ॥
gur sikhaa iko pi-aar gur mitaa putaa bhaa-ee-aa.
The Guru loves all of His Gursikhs equally well, like friends, children and siblings.
ਗੁਰੁ ਸਤਿਗੁਰੁ ਬੋਲਹੁ ਸਭਿ ਗੁਰੁ ਆਖਿ ਗੁਰੂ ਜੀਵਾਈਆ ॥੧੪॥
gur satgur bolhu sabh gur aakh guroo jeevaa-ee-aa. ||14||
So chant the Name of the Guru, the True Guru, everyone! Chanting the Name of the Guru, Guru, you shall be rejuvenated. ||14||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

The Guru gathers all the seekers together and connects each of them to the One.

Some get to stay close by; others are sent out to do good work in the world — both are needed, both are loved.

Those who keep the Beloved in their thoughts are filled, in return, with that same love.

And here is the beautiful part: the Guru loves every single seeker equally — like friends, like children, like brothers and sisters. No favorites, no leftovers.

So all of you, say "Guru, True Guru" together. Say "Guru," and feel yourselves come alive.

You are loved fully and equally — not more than one person, not less than another, but completely, like family.
The deeper layer

The Guru loves every seeker with one love, like family.

Guru Ram Das celebrates the Sangat, the fellowship, as a family of equals. Ik sayvak gur paas ik gur kaarai laa-ee-aa — some kept near, some sent to serve — honors different roles without ranking them. The heart-line is radically inclusive: gur sikhaa iko pi-aar, gur mitaa putaa bhaa-ee-aa — the Guru loves all Sikhs with one love, as friends, children, and siblings alike. This equal, undivided love mirrors Ik Onkar at the human scale: no hierarchy, no insiders and outsiders. The closing guroo jeevaa-ee-aa — “you shall be rejuvenated” — frames collective remembrance as something life-giving, never a chore.

A Question to Sit With

How does it feel to know you are loved just as much as everyone else — no favorites, no ranking?

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