Sikhism·Raag Sorath·Shabad 149
Verse 76 of 87

We See in Others What Lives in Us

ਸਲੋਕੁ ਮਃ ੪ ॥
salok mehlaa 4.
Shalok, Fourth Mehl:
ਅੰਤਰਿ ਅਗਿਆਨੁ ਭਈ ਮਤਿ ਮਧਿਮ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਕੀ ਪਰਤੀਤਿ ਨਾਹੀ ॥
antar agi-aan bha-ee mat maDhim satgur kee parteet naahee.
He has spiritual ignorance within, and his intellect is dull and dim; he does not place his faith in the True Guru.
ਅੰਦਰਿ ਕਪਟੁ ਸਭੁ ਕਪਟੋ ਕਰਿ ਜਾਣੈ ਕਪਟੇ ਖਪਹਿ ਖਪਾਹੀ ॥
andar kapat sabh kapto kar jaanai kaptay khapeh khapaahee.
He has deceit within himself, and so he sees deception in all others; through his deceptions, he is totally ruined.
ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਕਾ ਭਾਣਾ ਚਿਤਿ ਨ ਆਵੈ ਆਪਣੈ ਸੁਆਇ ਫਿਰਾਹੀ ॥
satgur kaa bhaanaa chit na aavai aapnai su-aa-ay firaa-ee.
The True Guru's Will does not enter into his consciousness, and so he wanders around, pursuing his own interests.
ਕਿਰਪਾ ਕਰੇ ਜੇ ਆਪਣੀ ਤਾ ਨਾਨਕ ਸਬਦਿ ਸਮਾਹੀ ॥੧॥
kirpaa karay jay aapnee taa naanak sabad samaahee. ||1||
If He grants His Grace, then Nanak is absorbed into the Word of the Shabad. ||1||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

When someone carries confusion inside and never quite trusts a wise guide, their thinking grows dull and cloudy.

And here is a strange thing: a person who is being tricky and dishonest inside starts to suspect everyone else of being tricky too. The deceit they carry wears them out.

The teacher's gentle way never quite gets through, so they keep chasing only what serves themselves.

But the moment grace touches them, everything changes, and they sink peacefully into the Word.

What you carry inside becomes the lens you see everyone else through.
The deeper layer

This Shalok names a piercingly true psychological law: andar kapat sabh kapto kar jaanai — "the one with deceit inside sees deception in everyone." We project our own inner condition onto the world. The teaching treats this as a disease to heal, not a sin to punish — kaptay khapeh khapaahee is softened from "totally ruined" to wearing oneself out. And the door stays open: kirpaa karay jay aapnee — one touch of grace and the whole pattern dissolves. Grace is received, not earned.

A Question to Sit With

Have you noticed that when you're in a grumpy mood, everyone else seems grumpy too? What might that tell you about how your inside shapes what you see?

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