gal jayvrhee aapay paa-idaa pi-aaraa ji-o parabhkhinchai ti-o jaahaa.
The Beloved Himself puts the chains around their necks; as God pulls them, must they go.
ਜੋ ਗਰਬੈ ਸੋ ਪਚਸੀ ਪਿਆਰੇ ਜਪਿ ਨਾਨਕ ਭਗਤਿ ਸਮਾਹਾ ॥੪॥੬॥
jo garbai so pachsee pi-aaray jap naanak bhagat samaahaa. ||4||6||
Whoever harbors pride shall be destroyed, O Beloved; meditating on the Lord, Nanak is absorbed in devotional worship. ||4||6||
Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa
In plain words
The Beloved made the whole world and holds all its turning in its hands.
Like a gentle puppeteer, it guides each of us by an unseen thread, and we move as it draws us.
Pride is the one thing that trips itself up — so I let mine go and lose myself happily in the song.
Pride is the one thing that trips itself up — so it's a relief to let it go.
The deeper layer
Gal jayvrhee — the cord at the neck — is softened here to a gentle puppeteer's thread: the One moves all, not by choking but by guiding. Jo garbai so pachsee — “whoever is proud is undone” — is read so that pride trips itself up, an ego that heals rather than a crime that's punished. The shabad closes on happy self-forgetting in devotion.
A Question to Sit With
When has letting go of showing off actually made you feel lighter?