The Puffed-Up 'Me' and Real Generosity Crowd Each Other Out
Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa
The puffed-up 'me' and the beautiful Name can't really share the same space in a heart.
When we're full of self-importance, it's hard to help others freely, and the heart stays a bit empty.
This shabad diagnoses haumai — ego, the sense of being a separate, self-important self — as the direct opposite of the Name: "the two do not dwell in the same place." Where ego fills the heart, there's little room for the Name or for seva (selfless service): "in egotism, selfless service cannot be performed, and so the soul goes unfulfilled." It's a precise teaching — ego and generosity crowd each other out. For a child: when you're very full of yourself, there's not much room left to help others or feel truly full.
Have you noticed it's easier to help others when you're not so worried about yourself?
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