Sikhism·Raag Wadahans·Shabad 13
Verse 5 of 6

It's Okay to Long to Be Held Close

ਨਿਤ ਸੁਹਾਗਣਿ ਸਦਾ ਪਿਰੁ ਰਾਵੈ ॥
nit suhaagan sadaa pir raavai.
The soul-bride continually, constantly enjoys her Husband Lord.
ਮੈ ਕਰਮਹੀਣ ਕਬ ਹੀ ਗਲਿ ਲਾਵੈ ॥੪॥
mai karamheen kab hee gal laavai. ||4||
I have no good fortune; will He ever hold me close in His embrace? ||4||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

The hearts that are close get to feel that closeness all the time.

'I don't feel so lucky,' I wonder — 'will I ever be held close too?' And the longing itself is a kind of reaching.

It's okay to long to be held close, even when it feels far off — the longing itself is your heart reaching.
The deeper layer

The verse voices the ache of watching others feel close while you wait: "the soul-bride continually enjoys her Husband; I have no good fortune — will He ever hold me close?" The qMonk voice, per the wellbeing rules, keeps the honest longing but frames it as a reaching rather than despair — the very wish to be held close is already the heart turning toward love. The shabad's next verse answers it. For a child: it's okay to long to be held close, even when it feels far off — the longing itself is your heart reaching.

A Question to Sit With

When you long to feel close and included, what small step could you take toward it?

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