Sikhism·Raag Wadahans·Shabad 13
Verse 6 of 6

You Don't Have to Be Perfect to Ask for Help

ਤੂ ਪਿਰੁ ਗੁਣਵੰਤਾ ਹਉ ਅਉਗੁਣਿਆਰਾ ॥
too pir gunvantaa ha-o a-oguni-aaraa.
You, O Husband Lord, are meritorious, while I am without merit.
ਮੈ ਨਿਰਗੁਣ ਬਖਸਿ ਨਾਨਕੁ ਵੇਚਾਰਾ ॥੫॥੨॥
mai nirgun bakhas naanak vaychaaraa. ||5||2||
I am worthless; please forgive Nanak, the meek. ||5||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

The One is full of every good thing, and I feel like I have so little — but I can simply, honestly ask to be helped and welcomed.

And that open-handed asking, just as I am, is always enough.

You don't have to be perfect to ask for help and kindness — coming honestly, just as you are, is always enough.
The deeper layer

The shabad closes in humble prayer: "You are meritorious, while I am without merit... please forgive Nanak, the meek." The qMonk voice renders the self-abasement as the honesty of open, empty hands — coming plainly and asking to be helped — never self-hatred. In the raag's logic, such honest asking is exactly what's welcomed; grace meets the one who simply reaches. The colophon (||5||2||) closes the shabad. For a child: you don't have to be perfect to ask for help and kindness — coming honestly, just as you are, is always enough.

A Question to Sit With

Is it easier to ask for help when you think you must be perfect first, or when you can just come as you are?

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