Sikhism·Raag Wadahans·Shabad 26
Verse 3 of 4

Ask Your Mind to Stop the Useless Complaining

ਵਾਰੀ ਖਸਮੁ ਕਢਾਏ ਕਿਰਤੁ ਕਮਾਵਣਾ ॥
vaaree khasam kadhaa-ay kirat kamaavanaa.
The Lord and Master gives them their turn, according to the deeds they have done.
ਮੰਦਾ ਕਿਸੈ ਨ ਆਖਿ ਝਗੜਾ ਪਾਵਣਾ ॥
mandaa kisai na aakh jhagrhaa paavnaa.
Do not speak ill of others, or get involved in arguments.
ਨਹ ਪਾਇ ਝਗੜਾ ਸੁਆਮਿ ਸੇਤੀ ਆਪਿ ਆਪੁ ਵਞਾਵਣਾ ॥
nah paa-ay jhagrhaa su-aam saytee aap aap vanjaavanaa.
Do not get into arguments with the Lord, or you shall ruin yourself.
ਜਿਸੁ ਨਾਲਿ ਸੰਗਤਿ ਕਰਿ ਸਰੀਕੀ ਜਾਇ ਕਿਆ ਰੂਆਵਣਾ ॥
jis naal sangat kar sareekee jaa-ay ki-aa roo-aavanaa.
If you challenge the One, with whom you must abide, you will cry in the end.
ਜੋ ਦੇਇ ਸਹਣਾ ਮਨਹਿ ਕਹਣਾ ਆਖਿ ਨਾਹੀ ਵਾਵਣਾ ॥
jo day-ay sahnaa maneh kahnaa aakh naahee vaavnaa.
Be satisfied with what God gives you; tell your mind not to complain uselessly.
ਵਾਰੀ ਖਸਮੁ ਕਢਾਏ ਕਿਰਤੁ ਕਮਾਵਣਾ ॥੩॥
vaaree khasam kadhaa-ay kirat kamaavanaa. ||3||
The Lord and Master gives them their turn, according to the deeds they have done. ||3||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Try not to speak badly of others or pick fights over everything.

And try not to fight against life itself — flowing with it goes better than battling it.

Be content with what you're given, and gently tell your mind to stop needlessly complaining.

Don't tear others down, don't fight against everything — and gently ask your mind to stop the useless complaining.
The deeper layer

A practical, grown-up verse rendered for a child: "do not speak ill of others, or get involved in arguments... do not argue with the Lord [i.e. with life itself]... be satisfied with what God gives you; tell your mind not to complain uselessly." It's wisdom about contentment and not-fighting — neither tearing others down nor railing against how things are. The qMonk voice keeps this as gentle counsel: flowing with life beats battling it, and a mind that endlessly complains only wears itself out. For a child: don't tear others down, don't fight against everything, and gently ask your mind to stop the useless complaining.

A Question to Sit With

What happens inside you when you complain a lot — and what happens when you find something to be content with?

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