Sikhism·Raag Wadahans·Shabad 31
Verse 3 of 4

The Pretend Doesn't Hold Up; There's Time to Become Real

ਖੋਟੇ ਖਰੇ ਸਭਿ ਪਰਖੀਅਨਿ ਤਿਤੁ ਸਚੇ ਕੈ ਦਰਬਾਰਾ ਰਾਮ ॥
khotay kharay sabh parkhee-an tit sachay kai darbaaraa raam.
The counterfeit and the genuine are all assayed in the Court of the True Lord.
ਖੋਟੇ ਦਰਗਹ ਸੁਟੀਅਨਿ ਊਭੇ ਕਰਨਿ ਪੁਕਾਰਾ ਰਾਮ ॥
khotay dargeh sutee-an oobhay karan pukaaraa raam.
The counterfeit are cast out of the Court, and they stand there, crying out in misery.
ਊਭੇ ਕਰਨਿ ਪੁਕਾਰਾ ਮੁਗਧ ਗਵਾਰਾ ਮਨਮੁਖਿ ਜਨਮੁ ਗਵਾਇਆ ॥
oobhay karan pukaaraa mugaDh gavaaraa manmukh janam gavaa-i-aa.
They stand there, crying out in misery; the foolish, idiotic, self-willed manmukhs have wasted their lives.
ਬਿਖਿਆ ਮਾਇਆ ਜਿਨਿ ਜਗਤੁ ਭੁਲਾਇਆ ਸਾਚਾ ਨਾਮੁ ਨ ਭਾਇਆ ॥
bikhi-aa maa-i-aa jin jagat bhulaa-i-aa saachaa naam na bhaa-i-aa.
Maya is the poison which has deluded the world; it does not love the Naam, the Name of the Lord.
ਮਨਮੁਖ ਸੰਤਾ ਨਾਲਿ ਵੈਰੁ ਕਰਿ ਦੁਖੁ ਖਟੇ ਸੰਸਾਰਾ ॥
manmukh santaa naal vair kar dukh khatay sansaaraa.
The self-willed manmukhs are resentful toward the Saints; they harvest only pain in this world.
ਖੋਟੇ ਖਰੇ ਪਰਖੀਅਨਿ ਤਿਤੁ ਸਚੈ ਦਰਵਾਰਾ ਰਾਮ ॥੩॥
khotay kharay parkhee-an tit sachai darvaaraa raam. ||3||
The counterfeit and the genuine are assayed in that True Court of the Lord. ||3||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Everything true and untrue gets gently sorted out in the end, like a jeweler testing gold.

What's only pretend doesn't hold up — but there's always time to become real.

Getting fixated only on shiny things can leave a heart resentful and stuck.

What's only pretend doesn't hold up in the end — but there's always time to become real and true.
The deeper layer

The verse gives the Assayer image: "the counterfeit and the genuine are all assayed in the Court of the True Lord" — like a jeweler testing whether gold is real. What's merely pretend doesn't hold up under testing. The qMonk voice, per the wellbeing rules, turns the harsh "cast out, crying" toward hope: there's always time to become real; and it softens "resentful toward the Saints" to the stuck, resentful state fixation can breed. For a child: what's only pretend doesn't hold up in the end — but there's always time to become real and true.

A Question to Sit With

What's the difference between pretending to be good and actually being good?

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