Sikhism·Raag Wadahans·Shabad 45
Verse 5 of 8

When We Miss Someone, Turn Together Toward the Lasting

ਨਉ ਦਰ ਠਾਕੇ ਹੁਕਮਿ ਸਚੈ ਹੰਸੁ ਗਇਆ ਗੈਣਾਰੇ ॥
na-o dar thaakay hukam sachai hans ga-i-aa gainaaray.
The nine doors are closed by the True Lord's Command, and the swan-soul takes flight into the skies.
ਸਾ ਧਨ ਛੁਟੀ ਮੁਠੀ ਝੂਠਿ ਵਿਧਣੀਆ ਮਿਰਤਕੜਾ ਅੰਙਨੜੇ ਬਾਰੇ ॥
saa Dhan chhutee muthee jhooth viDh-nee-aa miratkarhaa annynarhay baaray.
The body-bride is separated, and defrauded by falsehood; she is now a widow - her husband's body lies dead in the courtyard.
ਸੁਰਤਿ ਮੁਈ ਮਰੁ ਮਾਈਏ ਮਹਲ ਰੁੰਨੀ ਦਰ ਬਾਰੇ ॥
surat mu-ee mar maa-ee-ay mahal runnee dar baaray.
The widow cries out at the door, “The light of my mind has gone out, O my mother, with his death”.
ਰੋਵਹੁ ਕੰਤ ਮਹੇਲੀਹੋ ਸਚੇ ਕੇ ਗੁਣ ਸਾਰੇ ॥੫॥
rovhu kant mahayleeho sachay kay gun saaray. ||5||
So cry out, O soul-brides of the Husband Lord, and dwell on the Glorious Praises of the True Lord. ||5||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

When a life here is complete, the soul, like a swan, gently rises and takes flight.

Those left behind feel the ache of missing someone they loved so much.

In that sadness, we can gather and turn our hearts, together, toward what's good and lasting.

When we miss someone deeply, we can gather together and turn our hearts toward what's good and lasting.
The deeper layer

When someone we love dies, we miss them deeply. The song says we can turn toward the lasting good together.

Hans ga-i-aa gainaaray: the swan-soul flies up into the sky. The hans, a swan, is a picture for the soul. When a life is complete, the soul rises like a white bird taking flight.

The verse is honest about the people left behind. It shows a wife crying at the door because her husband has died. Her whole world feels dark. That sadness is real, and the Guru does not hide it.

Then comes the answer. Rovhu kant mahayleeho: go ahead and cry, friends. Sachay kay gun saaray: and remember the good qualities of the True One. Think of a family sitting close together after a loss, sharing stories and holding hands. In sorrow, we gather and turn together toward what is good and lasting.

A Question to Sit With

When someone you love has to go away, what helps the missing feel a little softer?

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