Sikhism·Closing Sections·The Closing Saloks
Verse 99 of 152

Salok Vaaraan Te Vadheek (Mehl 3), Salok 99 — make friends with those who face the Guru

ਨਾਨਕ ਹੁਕਮੁ ਵਰਤੈ ਖਸਮ ਕਾ ਮਤਿ ਭਵੀ ਫਿਰਹਿ ਚਲ ਚਿਤ ॥
naanak hukam vartai khasam kaa mat bhavee fireh chal chit.
O Nanak, the Hukam, the Command of your Lord and Master, is prevailing. The intellectually confused person wanders around lost, misled by his fickle consciousness.
ਮਨਮੁਖ ਸਉ ਕਰਿ ਦੋਸਤੀ ਸੁਖ ਕਿ ਪੁਛਹਿ ਮਿਤ ॥
manmukh sa-o kar dostee sukh ke puchheh mit.
If you make friends with the self-willed manmukhs, O friend, who can you ask for peace?
ਗੁਰਮੁਖ ਸਉ ਕਰਿ ਦੋਸਤੀ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਸਉ ਲਾਇ ਚਿਤੁ ॥
gurmukh sa-o kar dostee satgur sa-o laa-ay chit.
Make friends with the Gurmukhs, and focus your consciousness on the True Guru.
ਜੰਮਣ ਮਰਣ ਕਾ ਮੂਲੁ ਕਟੀਐ ਤਾਂ ਸੁਖੁ ਹੋਵੀ ਮਿਤ ॥੬੬॥
jaman maran kaa mool katee-ai taaN sukh hovee mit. ||66||
The root of birth and death will be cut away, and then, you shall find peace, O friend. ||66||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Nanak says: the Master's Hukam, the flow of all things, is at work everywhere. A confused mind wanders around lost, pulled by its restless thoughts.

If you make friends with those who follow only their own mind, my friend, whom can you ask for peace?

Make friends with those who face the Guru, and keep your heart on the True Guru.

Then the root of birth and death is cut away, and you will find peace, my friend.

Make friends with those who face the Guru, and peace has room to grow.
The deeper layer

The friends you keep and where you set your heart shape whether you find peace.

Everything begins in hukam, the flow of existence, which the restless mind, chal chit, keeps missing. Then comes a plain choice: friendship with the manmukh, who follows only their own mind, or with the gurmukh, who faces the Guru. Gurmukh sa-o kar dostee: make friends with those who face the Guru.

Jaman maran kaa mool katee-ai: the root of birth and death is cut — the coming and going driven by ego comes to an end, and peace takes its place.

A Question to Sit With

Which of your friends helps you feel most peaceful and most like yourself?

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