Sikhism·Raag Bilaaval·Shabad 161
Verse 3 of 21

Nothing Borrowed Lasts

ਦੂਜੈ ਭਾਇ ਲਗੇ ਪਛੁਤਾਣੇ ॥
doojai bhaa-ay lagay pachhutaanay.
The Second Day: Those who are in love with another, come to regret and repent.
ਜਮ ਦਰਿ ਬਾਧੇ ਆਵਣ ਜਾਣੇ ॥
jam dar baaDhay aavan jaanay.
The are tied up at Death's door, and continue coming and going.
ਕਿਆ ਲੈ ਆਵਹਿ ਕਿਆ ਲੇ ਜਾਹਿ ॥
ki-aa lai aavahi ki-aa lay jaahi.
What have they brought, and what will they take with them when they go?
ਸਿਰਿ ਜਮਕਾਲੁ ਸਿ ਚੋਟਾ ਖਾਹਿ ॥
sir jamkaal se chotaa khaahi.
The Messenger of Death looms over their heads, and they endure his beating.
ਬਿਨੁ ਗੁਰ ਸਬਦ ਨ ਛੂਟਸਿ ਕੋਇ ॥
bin gur sabad na chhootas ko-ay.
Without the Word of the Guru's Shabad, no one finds release.
ਪਾਖੰਡਿ ਕੀਨ੍ਹ੍ਹੈ ਮੁਕਤਿ ਨ ਹੋਇ ॥੨॥
pakhand keenHai mukat na ho-ay. ||2||
Practicing hypocrisy, no one finds liberation. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

On the second day, look at what happens when your heart clings to things that cannot hold you -- it leaves you restless and full of regret.

You did not bring any of those things with you when you arrived, and you will not carry them out with you either. So why let them run your life?

Pretending to be good on the outside frees no one. What frees you is the Guru's Word, changing you on the inside.

You can't take anything with you, so hold loosely and live for what's real.
The deeper layer

Clinging to passing things leaves us restless and sorry; the Guru's Word, taken to heart, sets us free.

This shabad is a Thittee, a song that walks through the days of the moon's cycle, one day at a time. Guru Nanak uses each day to teach something. Here it is the second day, and the word for "second" leads into doojai bhaa-ay: love of "a second," of something other than the One. That means holding on tight to things that pass away.

Doojai bhaa-ay lagay pachhutaanay — those who cling this way end up with regret. They keep coming and going, never settling. The verse paints a hard picture of death's messenger standing over them. The living lesson under it is simple: clinging leaves you restless and sorry.

Ki-aa lai aavahi ki-aa lay jaahi — what did you bring, and what will you take? Think of a sandcastle at the beach. It is fun to build, but you cannot carry it home.

Bin gur sabad na chhootas ko-ay — without the Guru's Word, no one is set free. Pakhand keenai mukat na ho-ay — pakhand, putting on a good show, frees no one. Only real change inside does.

A Question to Sit With

What is something you cling to that you might be able to hold more loosely?

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa·How we use AI

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