Sikhism·Raag Bilaaval·Shabad 173
Verse 4 of 40

Happiness Doesn't Come From Pretending

ਸਲੋਕ ਮਃ ੩ ॥
salok mehlaa 3.
Shalok, Third Mehl:
ਦੂਜੈ ਭਾਇ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ ਨ ਹੋਵਈ ਮਨਮੁਖਿ ਥਾਇ ਨ ਪਾਇ ॥
doojai bhaa-ay bilaaval na hova-ee manmukh thaa-ay na paa-ay.
In the love of duality, the happiness of Bilaaval does not come; the self-willed manmukh finds no place of rest.
ਪਾਖੰਡਿ ਭਗਤਿ ਨ ਹੋਵਈ ਪਾਰਬ੍ਰਹਮੁ ਨ ਪਾਇਆ ਜਾਇ ॥
pakhand bhagat na hova-ee paarbarahm na paa-i-aa jaa-ay.
Through hypocrisy, devotional worship does not come, and the Supreme Lord God is not found.
ਮਨਹਠਿ ਕਰਮ ਕਮਾਵਣੇ ਥਾਇ ਨ ਕੋਈ ਪਾਇ ॥
manhath karam kamaavnay thaa-ay na ko-ee paa-ay.
By stubborn-mindedly performing religious rituals, no one obtains the approval of the Lord.
ਨਾਨਕ ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਆਪੁ ਬੀਚਾਰੀਐ ਵਿਚਹੁ ਆਪੁ ਗਵਾਇ ॥
naanak gurmukh aap beechaaree-ai vichahu aap gavaa-ay.
O Nanak, the Gurmukh understands himself, and eradicates self-conceit from within.
ਆਪੇ ਆਪਿ ਪਾਰਬ੍ਰਹਮੁ ਹੈ ਪਾਰਬ੍ਰਹਮੁ ਵਸਿਆ ਮਨਿ ਆਇ ॥
aapay aap paarbarahm hai paarbarahm vasi-aa man aa-ay.
He Himself is the Supreme Lord God; the Supreme Lord God comes to dwell in his mind.
ਜੰਮਣੁ ਮਰਣਾ ਕਟਿਆ ਜੋਤੀ ਜੋਤਿ ਮਿਲਾਇ ॥੧॥
jaman marnaa kati-aa jotee jot milaa-ay. ||1||
Birth and death are erased, and his light blends with the Light. ||1||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Joy grows out of a whole heart, one that loves a single thing.

You cannot fake your way to it -- pretending to be devoted while your heart is somewhere else just leaves you restless.

Stubbornly going through the motions of a ritual, with nothing behind it, doesn't reach anyone.

Nanak says: turn toward the Guru, understand yourself, and let the small, grasping self grow quiet. Then the One comes to live in you.

Then the old circle of restlessness ends, and your light melts into the great Light.

You can't perform your way into real peace -- it grows from an honest heart.
The deeper layer

A Guru Amar Das shalok. Doojai bhaa-ay (the love of a second thing -- duality) and pakhand (show without substance) are the blockers here. The teaching is not "rituals are bad" but "hollow rituals reach no one." Aap beechaaree-ai... aap gavaa-ay -- understanding the self and letting the self-conceit go -- is the doorway. Jaman marnaa kati-aa (birth-and-death cut) is rendered gently as the ending of the restless circle, not as death-terror. Jotee jot milaa-ay: light merging with Light -- the drop rejoining the ocean.

A Question to Sit With

What is the difference between caring about something and only looking like you do?

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