Sikhism·Raag Saarang·Shabad 164
Verse 4 of 9

What Should I Hold Onto?

ਕਿਆ ਦ੍ਰਿੜਾਂ ਕਿਆ ਸੰਗ੍ਰਹਿ ਤਿਆਗੀ ਮੈ ਤਾ ਬੂਝ ਨ ਪਾਈ ॥
ki-aa darirh-aaN ki-aa sangrahi ti-aagee mai taa boojh na paa-ee.
What should I grasp? What should I gather up or leave behind? I do not know.
ਹੋਹਿ ਦਇਆਲੁ ਕ੍ਰਿਪਾ ਕਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਜੀਉ ਨਾਮੋ ਹੋਇ ਸਖਾਈ ॥੩॥
hohi da-i-aal kirpaa kar har jee-o naamo ho-ay sakhaa-ee. ||3||
O Dear Lord, Your Name is the Help and Support of those whom You bless with Your kindness and compassion. ||3||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

What should I grab hold of? What should I gather up, and what should I let go? Honestly, I do not know.

So I ask, simply: be kind to me. Let Your Name be my help and my companion — that is enough.

You do not have to have it all figured out — you can simply ask.
The deeper layer

"I do not know" is an honest thing to say, and the next step is to ask the One for help.

Ki-aa drirh-aan ki-aa sangrahi ti-aagee — what should I hold on to? What should I gather, and what should I let go? Mai taa boojh na paa-ee — I really do not know.

That is a rare and brave thing to say. The seeker sets down the pretending, the "I have it all figured out."

The answer is not a smarter plan. It is naamo ho-ay sakhaa-ee — let the Name be my companion and my help. Think of being lost in a new city and finally asking someone for directions. It feels humble, and it is the moment you start getting somewhere. Empty hands, held open, are ready to receive.

A Question to Sit With

When is it a relief to admit, honestly, that you do not know?

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