Sikhism·Raag Sorath·Shabad 17
Verse 2 of 4

Love Holds Gently While Fear Grips Like Chains

ਹਰਿ ਕੇ ਦਾਸ ਸੁਹੇਲੇ ਭਾਈ ॥
har kay daas suhaylay bhaa-ee.
The Lord's slaves are happy, O Siblings of Destiny.
ਜਨਮ ਜਨਮ ਕੇ ਕਿਲਬਿਖ ਦੁਖ ਕਾਟੇ ਆਪੇ ਮੇਲਿ ਮਿਲਾਈ ॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
janam janam kay kilbikh dukh kaatay aapay mayl milaa-ee. rahaa-o.
The sins and sorrows of countless lifetimes are eradicated; the Lord Himself unites them in His Union. ||Pause||
ਇਹੁ ਕੁਟੰਬੁ ਸਭੁ ਜੀਅ ਕੇ ਬੰਧਨ ਭਾਈ ਭਰਮਿ ਭੁਲਾ ਸੈਂਸਾਰਾ ॥
ih kutamb sabh jee-a kay banDhan bhaa-ee bharam bhulaa saiNsaaraa.
All of these relatives are like chains upon the soul, O Siblings of Destiny; the world is deluded by doubt.
ਬਿਨੁ ਗੁਰ ਬੰਧਨ ਟੂਟਹਿ ਨਾਹੀ ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਮੋਖ ਦੁਆਰਾ ॥
bin gur banDhan tooteh naahee gurmukh mokh du-aaraa.
Without the Guru, the chains cannot be broken; the Gurmukhs find the door of salvation.
ਕਰਮ ਕਰਹਿ ਗੁਰ ਸਬਦੁ ਨ ਪਛਾਣਹਿ ਮਰਿ ਜਨਮਹਿ ਵਾਰੋ ਵਾਰਾ ॥੨॥
karam karahi gur sabad na pachhaaneh mar janmeh vaaro vaaraa. ||2||
One who performs rituals without realizing the Word of the Guru's Shabad, shall die and be reborn, again and again. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Those who belong to the flow live light and easy. Old aches and heavy loads from long ago simply fall away, and they are gathered back into the One.

Even the people we love can start to feel like chains when we grip them out of fear. The world spins on in a fog of confusion.

Rituals done without the living wisdom behind them leave the heart just as restless as before. But the door out of the fog opens the moment I meet the teaching.

Love holds people gently; fear grips them like chains — the teaching shows the difference.
The deeper layer

This is the Rahao, the "pause" line and the center of the shabad: har kay daas suhaylay bhaa-ee. Those who belong to the One live suhaylay, light and at ease.

Old aches and wrongs from long ago are cut away, and the One gathers them close. That easy feeling is the special mood of Raag Sorath, a music of contentment.

Then the verse says ih kutamb sabh jee-a kay banDhan — all these relatives are chains on the soul. That doesn't mean family is bad. It means gripping people out of fear turns love into chains. Think of holding a friend's hand so tightly it hurts. Love needs an open hand.

Gurmukh mokh du-aaraa — those who face the Teacher find the door out. Rituals done without understanding keep us going round and round, dying and being born again. The door out of that fog is the teaching.

A Question to Sit With

When has holding onto something too tightly actually made you feel worse?

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